Huh? Don't you have a job? What do you do all day at home? Aren’t you getting bored? — Those are the questions that flood your mind when you mention that you don't have a job, no kids, and you're a stay-at-home wife. These drowning criticisms will make you question whether resigning from your career was a good move or not.
Defining the Stay at Home Wife:
Ever seen WandaVision? Think of it as that or the classic 'housewife' for the 80s crowd. A childless woman devoted to caring for her husband and managing the household while the husband takes care of finances.
How It Started:
In 2020, with the pandemic looming, my "essential" job demanded office presence. Concerned for our safety, my husband encouraged me to resign. The scary part? Transitioning from a working mom to a 'simple' housewife felt daunting. Questions about finances and my identity flooded my thoughts.
But fear not; we navigated this new chapter together. Monthly savings remained steady, and strategic financial moves eased the transition.
Benefits of Stay at Home Wife:
Time - A precious commodity in any relationship, being a stay-at-home wife grants me more quality moments with my husband.
Intimacy - With more time on our hands, there's a playful wink-wink to exploring deeper connections.
Minimalism - Decluttering became an art form, and yes, even Abbey's piano had to find a new home!
Organization - The luxury of time allowed me to transform chaos into order, impressing even myself with improved documentations and excel sheets.
Boring or Amazing? Life of a Stay at Home Wife (Childless) |
Isn't Boring?
Far from it! Embracing this phase meant seizing opportunities for personal growth. Despite initial skepticism, there's more to life than meets the eye.
Upskilling - From a novice in Excel to diving into data analytics, continuous learning became a fulfilling part of my routine.
Creating NEW Goals - As we achieved our 40x40 rental apartment dream ahead of schedule, we're laser-focused on the 10x50 House of Willmah, building a team for an uncharted market.
Health and Skincare - Fasting routines and skincare rituals became daily practices, prioritizing well-being.
Volunteering - Paying it forward and gaining diverse perspectives through volunteering for various causes.
My Day-to-Day Routine
Weekdays follow a rhythm:
Morning: Tea, email check, and social media updates.
Afternoon: Exercise, content creation, studying, connecting with family, cooking, and self-care.
Night: Dinner, movie marathon, and reading.
Weekends bring grocery runs or budget-friendly dates.
A Proverbs 31 Aspiration:
If your goal aligns with mine—a biblical representation of a good wife while stabilizing finances—start your savings journey with this FREE template (https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1UDfCET9z1Xgv9d-Hc2fMmjeVkV0UIDEsa0hFt7ePt4o/edit?usp=sharing). For detailed finance tracking, explore our Personal Finance Dashboard.
The path may be unconventional, but its rewards are extraordinary.
We love to travel, so here are some links I used for us to pretty save some on our international travels, local staycation, and activities. This is where I am affiliated at:
Expedia -- https://expedia.com/affiliate/wUj4hWB
KKDAY -- https://www.kkday.com/en-sg/i/UWHMYD?cid=10106&p=link
kris+ -- https://sqkrisplus.page.link/yS3NF9jkCJiW8CXq7
Zalora -- https://goto.zalora.com/c/5055389/1115734/14118
May ALMIGHTY bless you on your journey to be STAY-at-HOME-Wife!