First Commandment with Promise

OMG! When I was on my high school to college days, me and my parents do not have time to communicate. On teens, I am busy with my barkada and studies (kunwari nagaaral). Lakwatsa dito, aral, alis, practise, etc. My college life, I am really busy climbing way to the top and busy with my religious affair. Actually, minsan di alam nila nanay and tatay na nasa room na ako unless they will see some lights escaping my door. After college, I went for board exam and after passing it, I got job.

Most of my jobs ate all my time, even time for my bf. That was the phase of my life that career, money, and fame at the Bureau came first. Naalala ko pa si nanay, sabi nya, "di ngayon, pero sisingilin ka ng maaga ng katawan mo sa abusong ginagawa mo.". I am sleep-deprived back then.

Now...I am married, and staying here at Singapore, I am really missing them a lot. As I think, I have so many wasted time, sana pala I spent it wisely. Kesa yung ninunuood-nood ko ng TV sa room ko eh nakipagkwentuhan na lng ako sa kanila. Anyways hindi pa huli ang lahat. Hanggat makakagawa ako ng paraan to let them know how much I appreciate all the things they had done to me, lalo na ang strict rules they set sa aming magkakapatid, all the efforts to give us all the best things and all the love that they showered onto us.

I hope this blog will enlighten some of the readers how valuable the parents are. Make them feel  they are important. Make them feel they are special. Spend time with them.

Honour thy father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise; (Ephesians 6:2)

Our Great Stalkers

Well, when you say stalker it really denotes a negative impact to all who hears, read and see those word. But for me, haha, I like being stalked, it means there is something in my life that is interesting for them. Hehe. In this post I will thank them not for stalking but for following and reading our blogs.

Thanks to Ate Gagail the woman behind Abigail's Joy and my sister-in-law.

 Salamat I<3pinkc00kies for reading our every post and sharing your views.  

To Algene, The Coffee Chic, gratitude. Davaonios really have a good and warm heart, ang gaan ng pakiramdam ko sa batang ito. 

Thanks to the three of you, our follower our commentator, our cyber friends. We love you all. Keep clicking the ads! :) Mwahhhz!

What are you looking for?

How will you define happiness for yourself? How will you know if you really like something and it will suffice all your needs.


In life, many people are so sad because they are telling to themselves how unfortunate they are having such miserable life. They are always coming up and compare what they do not have to what others have.


As I always say to my friends, "you can't have it all". So why drowning yourself in a shadow of enviousness? Maybe you can't have it because the Almighty sees that you cannot be a good man if HE will give that things to you.


Stop comparing, work harder for what you want and be contented of what you have for now. Or you can do what I had done. You choose, give up one thing and ask for something you really dear to have. Then pray hard with all your heart and explicate. You might not get it as soon as you want or you might not get it at all. But at least you tried. Sacrifice one, then win one. As they say there three answers in a prayer... Yes, not now, and HE have a better idea.

But be careful what you wish for. There is no space for regrets. :)

Summer Sunshine by April Mae

Summer Sunshine Blog??? Why question marks? I am just thinking how I managed to find this blog and befriend the amazing woman behind this. Hmmmm. I think through ate Abigail, hayyyy, amnesia strikes again. Haha. But anyway, when I saw her blog for the first time, I am was so inspired to get my own and shout all through blogspot all the things running in my head.

Thank you ate April for such a wonderful award you have given to me and my husband! :) We are very flattered to be in number two spot. May nagbabasa pala ng mga kalokohan at mali-mali naming grammar/spelling na mga posts!

I hope someday, this blog we'll hit like yours ate. :) Salamat ulit for featuring me and my husband twice! Love it a lot! Guys, visit her blog. You will learn a lot of things not only with Ate April but also
to people who she features some of the posts. :)

Better than Me

I am so thankful to be Abbey's wife. As our love story that was told on our wedding page, this was really unexpected. All I know, I prayed for a kind husband, willing to strive hard to the provide our necessities.

I am so surprised to see him and keeps on calling me. We not ended well when we our in HS but a decade past, time erases all for me, as in all. Haha. Selective amnesia, forgive and forget.

Getting back. Abbey is a good cook. Almighty One is so great, HE really knew what I need to have for the rest of my life. Haha! Salamat po!

Abbey cooks, bakes and eager to try new one. He cooks well and why should I ruin it? Kanyang-kanya na ang kitchen. Ikaw na ang hari ng kusina, pero baby, remember, ako pa din ang kakain, ako ang huhusga. Haha. I am so blessed to be love by you Abbey. :)

Red Red Roses

Yes, I do not believe in Valentines' day. Why? I just don't want to. And why I accept flowers and chocolates from Abbey? Because he have his own beliefs and I respect him for that and in return he respects mine too.

Well, Abbey never fails to give me a bouquet of flowers or chocolates every February. Maybe this his way how to show off. Haha! Papansin lng sa akin. Joke! I appreciate the effort and the idea. Actually kinikilig pa din ako everytime he do surprises for me. :)

This year, he gave me 20 red roses and delivered by Angel Florists. They say this bouquet was called Pictures of Love. Hmmmm, this is Abbey's 2nd time to book for a delivery with them? Is it discounted? Hehe.

Thanks Abbey! Keep up the good work Angel Florists. Oh, send my regards to the one who delivered this flowers, he is so sweet and greets everyone in the office a happy hearts day. :)

Nice move Abbey, nauungusan mo na ako sa surprises. Arghhh! 

Deceiving ... Conceiving ...

Lahat ng makakakita sa akin eh nagsasabi na I have a better body now. My hips and butts became bigger omg, even my breasts. Lately I get dizzy almost everyday. As in two weeks akong hilo and on the verge to throw up everytime I move. 

And on that nausea that I felt, umabsent na ako and went for a check-up, doctor found out that I had a low blood pressure. Gave me some pills but the dizziness still continues to bother me. 

Oh, this is my first time to have a menstration that i just bleed up for only a day. And then I remembered my friend, she have this kind of situation tapos buntis pala sya. 

Then my husband excitedly bought this clearblue pregnancy test. And when he saw the result, sabi nya bibili pa daw sya. I don't know, pero I am not ready to bear a child, I am not ready for a great responsibility. Maybe not this day, maybe not this year. Anyway isa pa din ako sa mapalad, somehow. :) 

Lucas 23:29 Sapagka't narito, darating ang mga araw, na kanilang sasabihin, Mapapalad ang mga baog, at ang mga tiyang kailan ma'y hindi nangagdalang-tao, at ang mga dibdib na kailan man ay hindi nangagpapasuso. 

Burning Bridges

No, I am not just talking about man-woman relationship, this is to regard on all the relationship we are having. Pero oo nga, medyo mas applicable ito sa mga mag-on tapos naghiwalay.

Burning bridges is to permanently and unpleasantly end your relationship with a person or organization.

So why burn all the communications and all the past? Bakit? Hmmm, am I acting weird if I will say that I am still talking with my exes? Not constant but still we can talk anything under the sun. Even big quarrels we had eh nakakatuwa na  napaguusapan. Mga kalokohan at gaano kamahal ang isa't-isa nuon. Siguro di lng tlga ako marunong o di ako sanay na bigla ko na lng di kakausapin ang mga dating nakarelasyon. 

Sa office, hmmm, customs or import/export business is not so big, and I am thinking gnun din sa ibang field. Bakit mo puputulin ang magandang relasyon sa mga ka-officemates mo nuon dahil lng sa pagreresign mo? Ahmm, unless you do a huge mistake with your jagorns. Well, I am just thinking, I resigned sa company but not as a good colleague. Sabi nga sa pier, maliit lng ang customs, magkikita kita pa din tyo sa lamesa ng mga customs officers. Haha! 

You will never know what will happen next, so do not burn bridges. Masarap kaya na madami kang masasabi na khit hndi matalik na kaibigan eh mga taong makakausap at kahit papano ay kapalagayan mo na ng loob at kilala ka bilang tunay na ikaw. Nakakatuwa!